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Getting cuckold feet: Jealous lovers, screaming partners and a noble online project

By Dan Savage

Published: 10/6/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My husband has a cuckold fetish, which we have indulged through two drunken threesomes with two of his best friends. The first time, he really had to talk me into it. The second time, he steered me in that direction and I took the wheel. I now have had sex alone with Friend 2 a few times. My husb...[MORE]

Awkward threesomes: Is he a third wheel? Or in the throes of a cuckold fetish?

By Dan Savage

Published: 9/29/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a straight college guy, age 21, and I share a house with some buddies and a couple. Anyhow, the interesting stuff: This couple has been together for four years. They're both quite sexual, but she's got more libido than he does. I've got a big sex drive too. Both of them have stated an opennes...[MORE]

Hope for the future: Another gay teenager in another small town has killed himself

By Dan Savage

Published: 9/22/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q:I'm a gay male and have been seeing a terrific guy for a couple of months. Two years ago, during an uncharacteristically wild few months in my life, I had a threesome with a couple, and as it turns out, my boyfriend is very good friends with them. We see them socially and have even all had dinner...[MORE]

Mouse in the house: Man likes sex better with a cooter plug up his pooper

By Dan Savage

Published: 9/15/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q:I'm sorry about sending this letter to you via snail mail. I don't want to send an e-mail because I'd rather not have a record of this living forever on some server somewhere. About six months ago, after watching my girlfriend insert a tampon, I asked if I could do it for her next time. She thou...[MORE]

Drunk & dopey: OK, so that was awkward and dumb, but you're not a sex offender

By Dan Savage

Published: 9/8/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: A few nights ago, I got drunk and knocked on my roommate's door and confessed my attraction to him while he was lying in bed in nothing more than his Skivvies. (It was dark and I stayed at the door, so I didn't know that until after the fact.) And then I asked him if I could sleep in his room bec...[MORE]

Fear of women: Sad sack just can't seem to get with women

By Dan Savage

Published: 9/1/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: Here's my problem: I love women. I love the way they look, I love the way they move, I love the way they sound. I like to see them naked. But the idea of actually interacting with women — trying to engage them in intelligent conversation without coming off as absolutely leotarded — ab...[MORE]

First-time bummer: It's rarely all you'd thought it would be on the first try

By Dan Savage

Published: 8/25/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I lost my virginity last night. I'm a straight male in my early 30s, so it was about time. It wasn't awkward, and we had a good time. However, I didn't climax during sex, which is a result of years of death-grip masturbation. (Thanks for the warning, Dan. I'm sorry I didn't heed it.) She took it...[MORE]

Pokin' the pooper: The rules of hitting bottom during sex

By Dan Savage

Published: 8/18/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My boyfriend and I are straight college students, and he's always wanting to try new things. Recently, he asked to put a finger in my ass while we were having sex. Someone did that to me before, but it felt uncomfortable and it kinda hurt. I told my boyfriend that he could do it once and then I w...[MORE]

Advice for teen boys: Don't despair, you short, hairless chimp!

By Dan Savage

Published: 8/11/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: Longtime reader, first-time mailer. A long while ago, you wrote an incredible piece of general advice for teenage boys. The advice was so excellent that I clipped it out to keep in case I ever had a son. Well, years later, I have a son. But I have since moved a gazillion times and across several...[MORE]

Keep it honest

By Dan Savage

Published: 8/4/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My boyfriend and I have "history." We dated casually and weren't ready to stop seeing other people, so we had an open relationship. This phase was awful: lots of fights, a couple minor breakups, and eventually I called it quits for good, cutting off all contact. A month later, we starte...[MORE]

Porn for all!: If men get to watch porn, women needn't settle for cupcakes

By Dan Savage

Published: 7/28/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: Ever since hearing you say on your podcast that all men use porn, I have had a burning question: What about us women? If all men get a pass to have this whole other sex life, which is (mostly) external to their partnerships and is sexually satisfying, then I think all women should have a pass as ...[MORE]

Porn freak lies: The warning signs are ominous

By Dan Savage

Published: 7/21/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I was recently told that I am being puritanical and self-righteous because I can't get over the fact that my partner spends a good deal of time seeking out pictures of very young girls to masturbate to. Nothing illegal, he says, but still ... He admits to having a 20-year-plus addiction to porn,...[MORE]

Risky business: Work-related sex quandaries abound

By Dan Savage

Published: 7/14/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My boss and CEO lives and works in a different city, but most of her mail arrives at my office because it is the company's official address. I routinely open mail and packages addressed to her. Usually they contain documents for me to handle or software for me to install, but today I opened a pac...[MORE]

Dawn's early light: Author argues heteros are wired for multiple-male sex

By Dan Savage

Published: 7/7/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My husband of eight years confessed to wanting to watch me with another man. I asked if he meant it. He said yes. I asked if he wanted me to set it up. He said yes. I found a guy, and he agreed to a full STD screening — at my husband's suggestion and our expense — so that we wouldn't ...[MORE]

Daddy issues: Does creepy role-playing owe to some childhood trauma?

By Dan Savage

Published: 6/30/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I am a married white guy in my 50s. My wife and I do some role-playing where I am "Ted," her real-life father. In her script, I yell at my "bad daughter" (my wife) over some infraction and send her to her room. Later on, I sneak in and tell her that she could "make Daddy ...[MORE]

Transformers: It gets a bit complicated when you change genders

By Dan Savage

Published: 6/23/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My friend is a gay-identified FTM. He's hot, he's cute and, above the waist, you would never guess what he's got down below. We love to kiss and cuddle, and from my end, his blow jobs are great. The problem is that I have no idea how to reciprocate. He isn't into anal (why would he be, without a ...[MORE]

Ban the boner?: The best way to ease back into enjoying sex is to do it slowly

By Dan Savage

Published: 6/16/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a woman in my 20s, and I've been dating the love of my life for two years now. We are incredibly happy except for — guess! — we have different sex drives. When we first started dating, I initiated sex all the time and enjoyed it, but as soon as I started on birth control, my libid...[MORE]

Stalkers & soakers: Hubby goes too far, girlfriend makes a mess, and is the bottle of lube half-full?

By Dan Savage

Published: 6/9/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My husband was 28 and a virgin when I met him. When we started having sex, he opened up about being "different." He wanted to wear panties, he wanted me to have sex with other men, he wanted me to make fun of his tiny penis. Didn't love the stuff, but whatever. Now it's a thousand times...[MORE]

Prudes and squirters: Abstinence follies and how to enjoy female ejaculation without the mess

By Dan Savage

Published: 6/2/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a straight male college student in a relationship, which had been going great. The only incongruity was that, for a religious reason, I don't want to have penetrative vaginal sex before marriage. I'm up for anything else — I would eat her out, piss on her, whatever else — but not ...[MORE]

From hot trannies to BDSM nannies: Finding an MTF for a FWB, and how to properly cage your man while you're away

By Dan Savage

Published: 5/26/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: Where can a straight guy find a transsexual woman who is not a hooker and just wants to be friends (with benefits)? I know of one club where they hang, but they are mostly hookers there. I would like to go someplace where I could meet one and see if we could hit it off and go from there. I know t...[MORE]

Gays & dolls: Being a beard, being offended by 'gay,' and enjoying a Real Doll

By Dan Savage

Published: 5/19/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: One of my best friends at college is gay. I'm a straight female and I'm in a committed relationship with my own boyfriend. We're going to be sophomores in the fall, and I feel like this is about the age where coming out to one's parents is in order. However, my friend's parents are incredibly con...[MORE]

Coming clean: Why you two gay guys should probably admit you're bi to that girlfriend you want to team up on

By Dan Savage

Published: 5/12/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a mostly gay male with a boyfriend who is also mostly gay. We are into BDSM — we are both tops and sometimes play with other sub men. I say we are "mostly" gay because we do like to fuck submissive women once in a while. We haven't done this a lot, and never together because w...[MORE]

Lovers who step back: Let them do the re-evaluating while you go on with your life

By Dan Savage

Published: 5/5/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I am a 28-year-old, post-op transsexual woman. I met a great 31-year-old guy. We have been dating for a year, and he recently told me that he didn't think he was sure he was in love with me. He said that he didn't know if he could give me any sort of commitment, that he is afraid of what his peer...[MORE]

Snappy answers: Ask a simple question ...

By Dan Savage

Published: 4/28/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I read the letter from the woman who had cheated on her ex and now wants to patch it up. I have a similar situation, except it was my ex-girlfriend who cheated on me. We'd been living together for a few years — we were engaged — and then she suddenly moved out "temporarily" ...[MORE]

Backfired!: Why you probably shouldn't fart in your lover's mouth and laugh about it

By Dan Savage

Published: 4/21/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a 27-year-old gay man. I had a really great first couple of dates with a guy, so for the third date I invited him to stay over. I cooked a nice dinner, we watched a movie, and we had a lovely time in bed together. In the morning, we had another romp. At one point, he was rimming me, and unexp...[MORE]

Kinky but still squicked: Why you probably shouldn't blurt out your rape fantasies on the first date

By Dan Savage

Published: 4/14/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I am a mostly straight, 22-year-old woman. I am a pretty GGG kind of gal. I am generally not put off easily, even if I am told things that don't quite do it for me. So I just started seeing this guy. I haven't known him for long — no serious sexual activity other than mild foreplay. The ot...[MORE]

'Curing' a kink?: If your lover is GGG, she won't 'pathologize' your consensual turn-ons

By Dan Savage

Published: 4/7/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a young, straight feminist male, and I've been dating my feminist girlfriend monogamously for almost two years. Recently, I've been coming to terms with the fact that I am turned on by rape fantasies. Of course, I find the idea of actual rape repugnant, and this is probably, of course, an imp...[MORE]

Escorted out: Or why you shouldn't do sex work without telling your man

By Dan Savage

Published: 3/31/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I am writing to you because I know my boyfriend reads your column religiously. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me yesterday over the fact that I used to be an escort. He went through my e-mails and saw that I was answering ads, putting ads up, sending photo...[MORE]

Fantasy dilemmas: I worry that the explosive secret I shared will come back to haunt me

By Dan Savage

Published: 3/24/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: I'm a 23-year-old bi dude seeing a guy who is intelligent, sweet, attractive — the works. We've been together for six weeks. The problem is, after our first night together, I lost sexual interest in him. When I do get horny — which is rare at the moment due to work pressures — I...[MORE]

Happy feet: Gym shoes make my hubby sweat, and I'm jealous!

By Dan Savage

Published: 3/17/2010

Types: Culture, Love & sex

Q: My husband and I have been married for one year, but we had been dating for 10 years before that. I thought we had a very understanding relationship. In the last couple of days, I have found out that he has a serious obsession with females wearing running shoes. He had in the past hinted at the f...[MORE]

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